The smaller problems soon grew and became bigger. Lack of understanding to add to the fact that we were both going in opposite directions caused lots of grief. I still cannot work out whether it’s her paranoia or selfish motives but and she had always portrayed herself as the only victim to get help from others. She has a pattern… write emotional emails, involve friends and family for support and then do what she wants. She has also tried gaslighting my parents but they can now see through her. Even her father struggled until he passed away. You were less than a year old and she took you to USA against my wishes and when she got back I thought we were going to start over but when I was at work, she stole your passport and abducted you. That’s how we were separated and not the lies you have been fed. I was under a lot of medication a s these events had a serious impact on my mental health. She tried playing out the lies in the UK courts but they dismissed her case which was not all facts and so she abducted you anyway and filed for a divorce in India to make it more difficult for us. Whilst I was in turmoil and financially squeezed, I was coerced into the divorce proceedings. I could have pursued the child abduction case which was registered with the British police but then I thought, you were separated from your father and if I separate you from your mother, it’s only going to make it worse for you and so left you in your mothers care. I think this is the only thing I regret, she should have been in prison for scamming people financially and kidnapping you. A lot of people around the world split relations but majority of them make sacrifices for their children. Not your mother; instead you are having to make sacrifices to keep her happy which is a shame.